Oh, Dear God. Did
I ever think we'd reach a triple digit number of days of self-quarantining and
social distancing? No, I did not.
I won't deny the fact that this is testing me....big
time.
Little things that used to bother me have now become big
things that bother me.
Case in point...The Last One.
Does that mean anything to you? It does to me. It means I have to open a new box, or refill
the jar or restock the whatever.
Many, many moons ago do you recall my mentioning a contract of sorts where household responsibilities
were to be shared as the situation came up? I remember; my husband doesn't.
Consequently, I find the tea pitcher almost empty, but
not completely, so he's excused from making tea and refilling the pitcher.
Pringles potato chips....2 chips at the bottom means the
container doesn't yet need to be thrown away.
Toothpaste....one itsy bitsy squeeze from being
completely empty.
Toilet paper....3 squares remaining on the roll and the
cabinet empty of spare rolls. This is
something I always check, and for obvious reasons. This is the one I always mention (nag about)
to my husband.
These were little things, but not anymore. Not after 100 days of close quarters.
Last night, I checked the toilet paper situation and sure
enough...3 squares and no spare roll.
I thought it might be time for a meaningful lesson. You know me well enough by now to see where
this is going, don't you?
I always wake up before my husband does and this morning
it was no different.
Except I removed all the extra toilet paper rolls from our
"Primary" bathroom along with the boxes of facial tissues. ( I'm
grinning as I type this.) I left 3
squares on the existing roll.
Then I went outside to have my coffee and to enjoy the
view, knowing I would be hearing someone call my name for help. And I did.
And since no one enjoys drinking a cold cup of coffee, it
took awhile to respond while I finished my coffee and to bring him what he
desperately needed.
Meaningful lesson learned, I think.
Sicilian wives are great teachers.
BTW, my toe is fine, but I lost half the nail.
we know how to be understanding but we sigh and complain to facebook
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